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Sunday, November 21, 2010
You are a the biggest negative influence in my life and often I allow you to upset me and it throws me off of the path in life that I'm seeking to be on. Because of this I am closed off from you until you seek help with your narcissism and your need to control every situation and everyone in your life. Throughout my life you've made me realize just how I do not want to be. And for that, I thank you.
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Way to make good out of a crappy situation. You have my empathy, my dear.
ReplyDeleteI believe you have the wrong definition/label of whom I think you are refering to. Maybe this will help you understand.
ReplyDeleteWhen caregivers are inconsistent or overly protective, infants form an anxious or preoccupied attachment to the person primarily responsible for their care. Anxious or preoccupied children monitor their caregivers more closely, attempt to stay by their caregiver’s side and respond more dramatically when in trouble. Anxious children are simply more fearful and less confident than infants who are securely attached.
People who formed an anxious or preoccupied attachment as an infant, by comparison, are more likely to be preoccupied with their relationships as an adult. Anxious or preoccupied adults are constantly worried and anxious about their love life - they crave and desperately need intimacy - but, they never stop questioning their partner’s love (“do you really love me?”). Anxious individuals are concerned that their partners will leave them. These adults are obsessed with their relationships and everything that happens in them. They rarely feel completely loved and they experience extreme emotional highs and lows. One minute their romantic partner can make their day by showing them the smallest level of interest and the next minute they are worried that their partner doesn’t care about them. Overall, anxiously attached individuals are hard to satisfy; you can’t love them enough, or be close enough to them, and they constantly monitor their relationships for problems. Ironically, their need for love, makes it easy for anxious individuals to be taken advantage of when it comes to love and romance, which in the long run can create even more suspicion and doubt.
who are you? lolll
ReplyDeleteanonymous couldn't be more correct, jo. know that. Said person never meant or means any harm. Said person's brain is embedded with the past of being ignored. To make certain to not be ignored as an adult means to be OVERprotective, over analytical, over concerned. Accepting that, will help you accept said person. Hard as it may be.
ReplyDeleteat first i thought it was directed towards me, but then i realized that it's about said person... which makes a ton of sense, because i am nothing like this explanation. lol.
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